7th - 21st August 2025
Wendy and Henry, her 11 year old grandson by her youngest son Richard, visited Tim, her eldest son, and his family in Japan for two weeks in August 2025. It has been a few years since Wendy saw Tim at his home in Hong Kong and Tim visited the UK for Christmas 2024 but it was exciting to be able to go and see their new home in Tokyo and get a whole heap of new experiences for us both.
Henry is very interested in all things Japanese and has been learning the language through Duolingo, even before he knew there was an opportunity to visit his Uncle, Aunt and cousins. He was impressed with Shun's ability to speak English and Japanese when they met for Christmas last year and wanted to try and be able to talk to his cousin's in their own language.
This trip was different for me as well in that we travelled from Tokyo to Yumi's parents' home, a distance of 715 miles and 14 hours solid driving. This was done over two days each way, with visits to see sights as we travelled. Yumi was flying with Mika but Tim, Shun, Henry and myself did the roadtrip. I also had to get an International Driving Permit and couldn't believe how old-school that was. Bought from a tiny corner shop in Dunoon, the only place around us to obtain one, and a paper job. Very little security or checking on any of it.
The easiest way to do this is to show photos from each day and tell you what we got up to. Absolutely fascinating experiences for someone of my age, let alone an 11 year old.
Tim was keeping this as a fairly quiet day for us as we had been flying through the night and Japan is 8 hours ahead of the UK. After something to eat we walked back past Tim's home and into the main shopping area. Shun and Mika were on their bike and scooter and these couldn't be taken into the arcade. All bikes, even toddler bikes, have to be left in an indoor garage area where you get a couple of free hours and then pay for the facility. Each vehicle is locked into a stand and then you get the machine to unlock them when you want to leave. Brilliant idea.
The children all had ice-creams in the arcade and then there was a trip to a playpark for them where I got talking to a Japanese mother, married to an American, whose children were also playing there. Home for tea and bed to try and get us into the Tokyo time zone.
Fish Restaurant
Later in the evening we went to a fish restaurant with a difference. This one was set in a barn with many fish pools and you catch your own supper. You choose what size fish you wish to get and then fish in the pools that have that size. Henry was supplied with a rod and bait and also a net to put the fish in once caught. He was so excited when he managed to get one and keen to know if the man behind the counter was going to cook it for us. Uncle Tim said that the man would prepare it for our table. When the prepared RAW fish was delivered to the table Henry looked at his Uncle and said "I thought you were joking" as he realised that we were about to eat the fish he caught but it wasn't to be cooked. He did eat it though and had several pieces. Yumi had also caught a fish and ordered some other food and some of the fish was sent to the kitchen to be cooked but honestly, it was better raw.
Driving in Japan
This was my first time driving on an International Driving Permit although not my first time driving abroad. It was fairly easy as the road signs, although in Japanese characters, also had pictures on them. So, for instance, a whole load of Japanese characters by the side of an umbrella with lots of lines above it was a warning about heavy rain ahead. They also had a number of signs that are the same as here in the UK. No entry, Stop, One Way etc, all the same. Their speed signs were great as well because they told you when a speed restriction was starting by a number with an arrow pointing to the right, and also when it was stopping, with a number and an arrow pointing to the left. The rest of the time it was derestricted.
The drive was very interesting as the service stations are so much cleaner and better organised than those in the UK. They also have men in the parking areas to direct you to a space. This happens all across Japan apparently and was very evident in some places. I mentioned to Tim that surely all these people were not necessary and he replied that it gave people a sense of purpose to be able to work and it kept the economy going. It wasn't seen as futile or demeaning work, it was seen as employment and pride in having a role to do, even if it was directing traffic.
A service station en route with the man directing traffic into the lovely wide parking spaces
The boys on the back seat enjoying their unrestricted screen time as we travelled
Evening meal in a little café type place, quite late for the boys as it was about 9pm for food
A local speciality, in effect a type of fritter with a choice of filling. Henry went for apple at 10pm!
The whole experience of the atomic bomb site and surrounds was very salutary. It was interesting to read about the total destruction in human terms but that buildings remained standing, even at the centre of the site. This building has not been touched since that day, it has been left exactly as it was on 6th August 1945, a little over 80 years ago to the day. As the bomb detonated immediately above the Hiroshima Prefectural Industrial Promotional Hall it killed everyone in it immediately and destroyed the roof but left most of the side walls standing. It is now a World Heritage Site and a Peace Memorial.
First sight of a Bullet Train in Hiroshima Station
First tram ride for Henry, who had to ask what the vehicle was
A-Bomb Dome - the building that was at the centre of the atomic bomb drop
The text telling us what happened on that fateful day
The same building from a different angle
The same building from a different angle
Telling us the story of the bombing and what happened
Waiting for our drinks in Starbucks, Hiroshima
Henry and Shun playing on an old steam train in a playground
Old steam train in a playground at Hiroshima
Everyone on the slide in the playground. Mika, Shun, Henry, Tim and Wendy
Visiting Hiroshima Castle. Tim with Mika, Shun, Wendy and Henry
Yumi, Tim, Mika, Henry, Shun
Entrance to Hiroshima Castle
A view of Hiroshima Castle
Henry and Mika trying on Samurai helmets